How to Prepare for Divorce in Connecticut
Preparing for divorce in Connecticut can feel overwhelming, especially with the state's specific timelines and property laws. The more organized you are before filing, the more control you retain over the process from every angle, including financially, legally, and emotionally.
Understanding Divorce Laws in Connecticut
Fault Type
Both fault and no-fault
Waiting Period
90 days minimum
Property Division
Equitable distribution
Residency Requirement
12 months in CT (with exceptions)
- Connecticut allows both fault and no-fault divorce.
- The 90-day waiting period begins after filing.
- Residency requirements can be waived in certain circumstances.
How to Prepare for Divorce in Connecticut
⚖️ Legal Preparation
- Collect marriage certificates, prenuptial agreements, and prior court orders
- Understand residency requirements (12 months in CT (with exceptions))
- Decide whether an attorney or mediator best fits your situation
- Research Connecticut's both fault and no-fault divorce options
💰 Financial Preparation
- List all assets, debts, and income sources
- Gather tax returns (last 3–5 years)
- Open accounts in your own name
- Document all shared accounts and credit cards
Connecticut courts consider all property, including separate property, when making equitable distribution decisions.
👨👩👧👦 If You Have Children
- Learn Connecticut custody standards
- Document children's schools, healthcare, and activities
- Consider ideal custody schedules
- Gather records of parenting involvement
Connecticut courts focus on the best interest of the child and encourage parents to reach custody agreements.
🔐 Personal & Digital Preparation
- Secure passwords and financial access
- Preserve important communications
- Build emotional and logistical support
- Create copies of important documents
Connecticut Divorce Resources
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