How to Prepare for Divorce in Oklahoma
Preparing for divorce in Oklahoma can feel overwhelming, especially with the state's specific timelines and property laws. The more organized you are before filing, the more control you retain over the process from every angle, including financially, legally, and emotionally.
Understanding Divorce Laws in Oklahoma
Fault Type
Both fault and no-fault
Waiting Period
10 days (no children) or 90 days (with children)
Property Division
Equitable distribution
Residency Requirement
6 months in OK
- Oklahoma allows both fault and no-fault divorce.
- Waiting periods differ significantly based on whether children are involved.
- Oklahoma allows divorce based on incompatibility.
How to Prepare for Divorce in Oklahoma
⚖️ Legal Preparation
- Collect marriage certificates, prenuptial agreements, and prior court orders
- Understand residency requirements (6 months in OK)
- Decide whether an attorney or mediator best fits your situation
- Research Oklahoma's both fault and no-fault divorce options
💰 Financial Preparation
- List all assets, debts, and income sources
- Gather tax returns (last 3–5 years)
- Open accounts in your own name
- Document all shared accounts and credit cards
Oklahoma divides marital property equitably. Separate property generally remains with the original owner.
👨👩👧👦 If You Have Children
- Learn Oklahoma custody standards
- Document children's schools, healthcare, and activities
- Consider ideal custody schedules
- Gather records of parenting involvement
Oklahoma courts prioritize the child's best interest and may require parenting classes.
🔐 Personal & Digital Preparation
- Secure passwords and financial access
- Preserve important communications
- Build emotional and logistical support
- Create copies of important documents
Oklahoma Divorce Resources
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